As with many people in the US a few weeks ago, we caught Lotto fever. Over 1 billion is worth a flutter. Overall, I am opposed to the lottery. Originally in New York it was supposed to fund schools. Really? And look at the schools in Detroit. But enough of that.
We bought a few dollars worth of tickets and began to speculate. What would we do? Husband announces that first thing we get the absolutely best doctor in the world for what we call MC (my condition). Ok, you may say I am in denial but it works for me. Everyone is different. And after that we would buy a nice house. We would pay off the one we currently live in. I must paraphrase Hyacinth Bucket a.k.a Bouquet – the house that is now next to the used car lot with the massage parlor. The parlor or message store as the police referred to it in a report I made after I had another flat in my driveway is temporarily gone. Funny enough, as soon as we returned from police, the big sign in the front was gone. Do I need to say more?
Then after a house for us, one for each of the boys and husband’s sister. And then? Well, lots to real charity. In fact, the other night there was something on the news about local people being displaced and renovations would have run a few million dollars. Husband said, “We could have done that in a heartbeat if we had won.” Well, we didn’t.
Recently, I have undergone significant financial reversals. No, not the stock markets. More along the line of no income. It appears that hopefully after all the belt tightening, this is about to change. As I anticipate this, another list to make. Late last summer, a man who saw me commuting, pulled up his pants (nothing lewd here) and showed me a device on his leg. He thought we had the same condition. It’s a Walkaid and there’s also another product called Bioness. They cost a few thousand. We didn’t have any money when we spoke to the doctor about it and she said it might give me the same results as the Ampyra or it might be better. It tops my new wish list. I had to cut back on my traditional donations. I was an officer at a bank years ago. One of the first things I did when I received it was write checks to my favorite charities, My co-worker thought I was odd but it used to give me a kick, almost as good as sex, more like a deep kiss. Donations to AAUW’s Legal Advocacy fund and the County domestic violence unit. My two favorites.
So what else have I been thinking about and missing? Well, as I have said before clothing is my life. Therefore, I shop. I love the air in stores, the undercurrent, the lust. It energizes me. I remember being in Paris once hungry and tired but in track of a shop I had heard about. I found it and revived like a flower in water. Due to my own personal economic downturn I haven’t been able to do it for ages. I am surprised. This situation has made me less materialistic. Clothes and cosmetics aren’t really part of this list. When I received word that things were going to be ok, I admit to flipping through a Smithsonian sales catalog and seeing some Christmas necklaces that would be wonderful for my elves next year.
So what else is on the list? I want a car. I wanted one for my milestone birthday. And not just any car, a “luxury” car. I am known for saying carwise I am OK with a box, wheels and a radio. I certainly do not see a car as a reflection of who I am. My ex-husband and my brother always derided me for that. I wanna Buick, like the commercial. It’s cute. My brother-in-law who is amazing with dealers and dollars couldn’t make it work for me. The car represents getting something for me and for once not settling. That’s what it’s about.
This is what I have learned during this setback, downturn, whatever you want to call it. I no longer want to settle. Not in terms of what I do for a living, not in terms of a car, not in terms of my health. Oh, right after car on my list I have sliders for Zumba for my sneakers and a personal trainer.
It’s been a huge lesson and one way or another, in my mind, I have won my lottery.