My old manager always said when someone bought into something that they had drunk the Kool-Aid. It wasn’t necessarily a good thing. It was definitely an illusion to Jonestown and he didn’t mean it positively.
Oh, and he never said that about me.
I am not a Kool Aid drinker. When I was little and everyone had birthday parties with Kool Aid, I didn’t drink it. I am told it made me sick. My mother, who was very advanced for her time, didn’t believe in it. No sugary drinks for us. I didn’t drink soda till junior high. I digress. This is about Kool Aid. Well, not really. It’s about buying into something whole heartedly. I don’t think I ever do.
I have written about my mother and her force and determination. Well, my Dad was a non-Kool Aid drinker. He was always skeptical about everything. He always took a step back. It was something we argued about.
However, I never ran with the pack or the clique. My mother used to say that I conformed to non-conformity. I probably still do. I pick and I choose.
That’s what I am doing with this food thing. Picking and choosing. After all, I am the editor’s daughter. In addition to writing, he was an editor. I know I edit.
And I don’t commit. It’s my failing. I have had more than one manager at work who has said if I ever committed I would be frightening. And as to relationships……. My sister friends I commit to with a fierce loyalty. For them I would drink the Kool Aid and I do drink the Kool Aid of friendship. Men were another story.
So, where does this leave me? Do I drink the Kool Aid of this way of eating? Can I drink it? Maybe Kool Aid isn’t right for me?
I read all these people that are drinking it and getting personally filtered water and questioning everything they eat. Have you ever been out to eat with one of those people who question the wait staff? And then basically want it cooked without anything? Like why bother to go out to eat? I think that makes it uncomfortable for everyone. But the people who succeed appear to be fanatic. I was raised in a household where fanaticism was antithetical to our being. Also, funny enough, I am a Libra. Whilst I may not buy into the whole astrology thing (there goes the Kool Aid again) I need balance. To be that extreme, puts me out of balance.
What I do need to do is finally, ultimately commit to me. If I make that leap then I can eat the way that will help me. I can rise.